dialogs are off to the bottom right

on the devkit using phoc dialogs are shifted ~20 pixels to the bottom right cutting of parts of the screen. issue is that chatty sends off the wrong window geometry:

[594947.987]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[594965.340]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[594981.024]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595017.967]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595030.439]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595079.977]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)
[595082.347]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595110.059]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595156.630]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)
[595180.466]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595182.376]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)
[595206.294]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595208.098]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)
[595227.813]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595229.768]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)
[595261.301]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595263.329]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)
[595295.278]  -> xdg_surface@28.set_window_geometry(0, 0, 372, 648)
[595297.794]  -> xdg_surface@37.set_window_geometry(26, 23, 360, 623)

@28 is the main window while @37 is the new chat window. I tried to tweak this with dialog gravity and window_position but that didn't change a thing. Is chatty doing anything with these besides in chatty-dialogs.c?

We will likely have to work around this in the compositor but we made phoc not auto maximize surfaces with parents to give applications more control over the dialog size.