same as legitimize_mnt(), except that it does *not* drop and regain
rcu_read_lock; return values are
0  =>  grabbed a reference, we are fine
1  =>  failed, just go away
-1 =>  failed, go away and mntput(bastard) when outside of rcu_read_lock

Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>