net: sched: change type of reference and bind counters

Change type of action reference counter to refcount_t.

Change type of action bind counter to atomic_t.
This type is used to allow decrementing bind counter without testing
for 0 result.

Reviewed-by: Marcelo Ricardo Leitner <marcelo.leitner@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Vlad Buslov <vladbu@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>