soreuseport: setsockopt SO_ATTACH_REUSEPORT_[CE]BPF

Expose socket options for setting a classic or extended BPF program
for use when selecting sockets in an SO_REUSEPORT group.  These options
can be used on the first socket to belong to a group before bind or
on any socket in the group after bind.

This change includes refactoring of the existing sk_filter code to
allow reuse of the existing BPF filter validation checks.

Signed-off-by: Craig Gallek <kraig@google.com>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>