net: Track socket refcounts in skb_steal_sock()

Refactor the UDP/TCP handlers slightly to allow skb_steal_sock() to make
the determination of whether the socket is reference counted in the case
where it is prefetched by earlier logic such as early_demux.

Signed-off-by: Joe Stringer <joe@wand.net.nz>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200329225342.16317-3-joe@wand.net.nz