net: bridge: allow the switchdev replay functions to be called for deletion

When a switchdev port leaves a LAG that is a bridge port, the switchdev
objects and port attributes offloaded to that port are not removed:

ip link add br0 type bridge
ip link add bond0 type bond mode 802.3ad
ip link set swp0 master bond0
ip link set bond0 master br0
bridge vlan add dev bond0 vid 100
ip link set swp0 nomaster

VLAN 100 will remain installed on swp0 despite it going into standalone
mode, because as far as the bridge is concerned, nothing ever happened
to its bridge port.

Let's extend the bridge vlan, fdb and mdb replay functions to take a
'bool adding' argument, and make DSA and ocelot call the replay
functions with 'adding' as false from the switchdev unsync path, for the
switch port that leaves the bridge.

Note that this patch in itself does not salvage anything, because in the
current pull mode of operation, DSA still needs to call the replay
helpers with adding=false. This will be done in another patch.

Signed-off-by: Vladimir Oltean <vladimir.oltean@nxp.com>
Reviewed-by: Florian Fainelli <f.fainelli@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>