bpf: Don't refcount LISTEN sockets in sk_assign()

Avoid taking a reference on listen sockets by checking the socket type
in the sk_assign and in the corresponding skb_steal_sock() code in the
the transport layer, and by ensuring that the prefetch free (sock_pfree)
function uses the same logic to check whether the socket is refcounted.

Suggested-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Joe Stringer <joe@wand.net.nz>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200329225342.16317-4-joe@wand.net.nz